Monday, June 29, 2009
New Blood
Michael Jackson
Friday was a sad day for me and Kristine.
Michael Jackson died that day. My pop idol is gone, but his songs will live on.
Memory of Kylie sitting on my shoulders watchig MJ perform in Singapore National Stadium is still vivid in my mind. It was 1993 when Kylie was just 7. Our seats were close to the stage, with maybe 20 rows separating us from the stage. We thought the seats were for, errrrr, sitting. When the show started, everyone in fornt of us got wild and stood up, ON THEIR SEATS!!!!!! No way Kylie could see MJ perform, so the only choice was for her to sit on my shoulders, through the whole show. She ended up with the best seat in the stadium!
Kristine's young heart was broken that day too, by a boy who shares the same school, in the same grade and lives within the same apartment complex. School holidays have started. Kristine called him in the morning to arrange a playtime. It was to be 1pm at his home. Throughout the whole shopping time at Tesco that morning, Kristine was excitedly rushing me to finish shopping so she could be punctual for her 1pm playtime. To save time, our lunch was pastries from Tesco, eaten on the bus ride home. Upon reaching home, I suggested to Kristine to call this boy to make sure he was indeed home. To Kristine's total disappointment, the boy gave her all sorts of excuses not to meet her, including "I am on my way to Hawaii'!!!!
The first time Kristine cried (quietly) into her pillow. A few fatherly words later, Kristine was happy again, taking a video of her toys, her room, her craftwork, with her own narrative.
As Uncle Frank said when Kristine fractured her elbow, "A girl does not grow up without a few broken bones and broken heart".
Jokhang Temple (大昭寺)
The holiest of all temples in Lhasa, with an ancient Buddha statue of Sakyamuni, housed in a small chapel inside the temple. A queue into that chapel takes 2 hours. Our tour guide tried to persuade the curator monk to let us through into the chapel without queueing, without any success. Justice previals and all creatures under the eyes of Buddha Sakyamuni are equal. Built during the Tang Dynasty some 1350 years ago to honour Tang Dynasty Princess Wencheng marrying to a Tibetan King. While both Potala and Jokhang are now under World Heritage protection, Jokhang is more revered by the adage "A visit to Lhasa is not complete without a visit to Jokhang Temple".Pilgrims walked round and round, and round, and round the exterior perimeter of Jokhang Temple, some on all fours on ground every three steps. I recognise a young man who did just that on Thursday when we visited the temple. He was there again on Sunday when we returned to buy some souvenirs.
Sera Monastery (色拉寺)
A smaller monastery in Lhasa but we saw 400 monks praying in unison in monastery main hall celebrating a religious event. We saw three Tibetans offering cash of Y20, Y5 and Y5 to each monks in the hall, that is Y8000, Y2000 and Y2000 of cash. A young monk nearest me, and several other young monks, left to fetch Yak milk tea to offer to all chanting monks. Upon returning to his seat, he gave his cash to a monk next to him. I dont know the significance of his hesture, but it was interesting to watch. At the 'right' time, Tibetans will offer all their valuables to temples and start again. We stayed in the prayer hall with the monks for almost 2 hours. Many multinational tourists were mesmerised too.
Zhaibung Lamasery (哲蚌寺)
By far the largest monsatery in Lhasa with 800 resident monks (down from 8000 in its heyday).Photo shows a group of young monks participating in Buddhism quizzes by two elders. Jane and Grace are sitting on steps in background. The monasteries have electricity these days but they still rely on firewood for cooking. Water comes from bored holes. Toilets remain primitive, but the devotees remain totally devout.